Marriage or living together... What\'s better?

Marriage or living together… What’s better?

Just say your opinion… Labas
Do you need the stamp in your passport?
Maybe it is enough to love and to live together without marriage… Apkabinimas
My grandmother says, that two loving people MUST marry… MoterisVyras
And my friend says, that marriage is old-fashioned thing…Blogai
What do you think???

Your boyfriend says so or just friend? Nekaltas

I used to think that marriage is not necessary. But I have changed my mind. Maybe I am getting old? Cha cha Anyway, now I think that two really loving people wouldn’t be afraid to have that stamp in their passports Nekaltas What can be the reasons for not having it? It’s easier to separate in such case? You can lie to your lovers that you have no girlfriend/boyfriend? Even to those who check your documents? Cha cha Feel more free to look for another "better" man/woman?..

There are two sides…

The first is that you can marry and to have many children, to be a good wife, to cook and do all the cleaning around the house… Liežuvis

The second is not to marry and just to live together… Personally I think that this one is better because you aren’t married and there isn’t any routine in your daily life as it would be if you were a wife… You can still go to dates and to do all the things which lovers are used to doing… I think it’s really good Gerai

Anyway, you can marry when you are prepared for this. I think it doesn’t matter you are 20, 30 or even 50. the main thing is YOU. Do as you feel. As you think it is right.

It’s always nice to say that you are wlking on the right way… So, don’t ask us. Turn to yourself and have a deep look to your soul. It knows what you need. It’s for sure… Laimingas

good luck Labas

Just friend Liežuvis

I agree with you Taip

I know my own opinion… I really have it…
I started this topic not for myself Šypsena
I’m just interested what people think, what their opinions are…

Then, I think that people create routine… and there is no difference if they live together or separately… Taip

I used to think that marriage was the only solution. Now, I think living together is Gerai… as long as it’s what both people want. If one person wants to get married, then it’s not the solution anymore… Nekaltas

And what do you think about wedding party Taurė and white dress Angelas Flirtas

Almost all Moteris are crazy about it. Especially when one of their friend-Moteris is going to marry. I know it from my wife experience. Juokiasi

I’m sorry I’ll write not in English.

Jei abu žmonės būtų stiprūs, atsakingi ir idealūs, tai tuomet nebūtų didelio skirtumo. Bet juk gyvenant kartu pasitaiko visokių nesutarimų, pasibarimų, pykčių ir nuomonių išsiskyrimų. Va tokiais atvejais, gyvenant nesusituokus, gal lengviau padaryti kvailysčių ir neapgalvotų poelgių, o va kai esi susituokęs, tai tai truputį pristabdo, truputį priverčia elgtis santūriau ar bent jau nespjauti į viską.

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Bet ar negeriau, kartais save pristabdyti ir nesielgt visiskai lengvabudiskai?
I think that sometimes we need breaks (stabdziu)… Taip

Geriau. Taip

I personaly think tahat if you love a person you don’t need some kind of paper to prove it and you can be happy whitout marriage…

But sometimes the stamp stops from separating too early, I think. When there is no stamp you just take your bags and go. And the stamp helps to survive the crisis without separating because it is not that easy to get rid of that stamp. While tou are trying to divorce you can change your mind and then be happy for the rest of your life. I think that the stamp helps not to hurry too much.

and personaly i think it’s a good idea to live together for some time it depends for a year or two and if the feelings don’t go away maybe then marrige is a good solution just to feel more comfort and security for both the man and the woman

i think marriage is necesary for both sides , because u can feel better when u know that you have less chance to diverge Šypsena

well, i’m kinda afraid of marriage… of course, i’m dreaming about that beautiful white - or red… or even black Cha cha - dress, but i need to trust MY PRINCE very much to say ‘yes’ to him… & i need to love him really strongly… & i also have to feel that marriage is the only way of living for both of us… but all this seems to be so serious & even a bit uninteresting… Nustebęs
i’m sure i will need a lot of time/courage to take such a step… Nekaltas

Yes, I think, that time for marriage comes itself Liežuvis
But sometimes I feel that I can marry NOW… And again I realize that this step costs a lot Cha cha and after marriage people must live somewhere…
Lots of problems Liūdnas OK one more year and then… maybe… Cha cha

did you try to live together??? If yes, what is the result? If no, why?