Is it possible to became good friends with foreinger?I think there are too many differences of character,culture and etc. before i had one friend from Holland,but i became so shit to be with her,because her minds ,her life style looks sooo stupid to me.I wanted a girl to go shopping,talking about the boys,going out and doing other thing ,which ussually girls are doing together…But it was impossible…And what about you?do you have any experience?
Yes, I have experience with it… you know… and it was not so possible at all… but I tried…
I dont understand why you are saying what you wanted. i think you got it … I wanted also to go out, shopping and talking about boys and everything… you think we didn’t?.. and yes, it was different at all… (then just friends from the same country) because are minds are really different from each other…that’s why we had allways fights…
Thank you for saying that my lifestyle and minds are stupid… I dont thinks so…at all not. What u mean btw? Do you think i had the same lifestyle before… no way…
Sometimes, i thought you was thinking so stupid… We thought it from each other yes… But it dont means, you cant be friends… you allways can try…to make both happy… but i think you never tried… And by the way… you never said if (in your eyes) i did something wrong or different… you didnt said… you became just angry… and never talk first about it… That’s what i dont understand… I think it is normal to talk about everything… (AND I MEAN HERE… NOT TO TALK LATER ABOUT IT… OR TALKING ANGRY WHAT I DID WRONG… I MEAN, JUST TALKING AS FRIENDS ABOUT IT)
I can say many things, what i dont think it is normal, but why to say it here… i am in a Lithuanian forum… so i think that less people thinks the same… But one thing… I think it is really normal to help each other if you are shopping and one is fitting clothes, and the other asks: can u bring me another one… and she will do it…
And last, i dont like that friends are saying things to me, that I have to do this and this… and if i dont do it, friend will be angry…
Btw, I know for sure that people from foreign countries, CAN be friends… it is just a litlle bit difficult… (It depends on the person too…) but it is possible… Maybe not for everyone… (Only when you try to understand, why the other thinks like this…)
ella did you saw the questions?damn we are talking not about each other here!!i asked people,what they thinks about it,so better write your bliambaing personal things to private.
P.S. but one thing shocked me…damn ella you have to go to the doctor,because you have really big problems with your memory and brains I was always talking to you,what i don’t like about you!!damn should I help you to remember it?! just you was always saying:it’s stupid…and going away…you are sooooo double faced,or you have really big problems…
i have are friends from Germany, Belgium , Luxemburg, but i can’t meet them… But we have contact with each other all the time sometimes they coming to my country and we are spending a great time
A lot You can ask from which countries I don’t have any friends
I have friends in Brazil, Bolivia, Ecuador, Colombia, Holland, Spain, France, Belgium… Czech Republic, Bulgaria… Hungary something more… of course Nepal, Indian, Japan, China, Indonesia… Australia
It does not mean that I contact with them very often, but I always congratulate them with the New Year and if it is possible I go to visit them.
THe world is really small
yeah, I dont wanna make a list of all the countries that my firends are from, but really, I know a lot of people from all over the world. Basically, it’s even more interesting to socialise with the person who has different cultural background, and both of you have to be pretty adoptable and toplerant to each other to accept the challenges of the multicultural friendship…
It absolutely is possible to become good friends with foreigners. However, you must understand that people in other countries may not share the same values as you do. Furthermore, we are all different, even if we come from the same culture, so just because you didn’t become friends with this girl, doesn’t mean that you can’t become good friends with other foreigners. Just keep in mind that you’ll probably get to know many people, but have few friends. Keep your friends close to your heart and top of your mind and I’m sure you’ll be rewarded with good friends, no matter where they come from.
[quote]StaHi rašė:
… Just keep in mind that you’ll probably get to know many people, but have few friends. Keep your friends close to your heart and top of your mind and I’m sure you’ll be rewarded with good friends, no matter where they come from.
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StaHi - Your one comment reminds me of this phrase I learned awhile ago:
Keep your friends close; keep your enemies closer.